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Organizing While Trans in North Carolina

May 10, 2016

I didn’t fully know what to expect when I first arrived to North Carolina with the National LGBTQ Task Force Action Fund to organize people on the ground against HB2 a few weeks ago. I had a basic understanding of what was going on in North Carolina for LGBTQ people because of HB2. However, the law’s harmful effects are broader than just denying access to restrooms to transgender people. The law also makes it possible for all types of minorities to be discriminated against with no repercussions. Also, it took away the ability for municipalities to make their own decisions to raise the minimum wage to a living wage. As a result of this discriminatory law, major corporations like PayPal, Deutsche Bank, Target and the NBA decided to take a stand against the state and in several cases, take their business elsewhere. Musicians and arts performers including Bruce Springsteen, Nick Jonas and Demi Lovato also canceled their North Carolina shows to boycott the law. Additionally, many states and local governments have issued statements telling their residents not to travel to North Carolina because of the discrimination they could face since the HB2 bill was signed into law.

Camden Hargrove

Camden Hargrove

As a trans man of color, I didn’t know how I would feel personally coming into the state, facing the same issues that trans folks in North Carolina are facing every day. At this point in my life, my gender identity and expression are not something I think about all the time, but from the minute I stepped into the men’s bathroom in the Charlotte airport I felt different. I was immediately very conscious of the people around me as well as their reactions. I wondered to myself if I was fitting in and similar thoughts I hadn’t had since much earlier in my transition. I realized that I was actually afraid of what might happen if someone found out I was trans. If I got assaulted in the bathroom, I would have been the only person in trouble with the police because I was born female and I was in the men’s bathroom. Normally I really enjoy coming out and telling my story and telling people I’m trans because of how much it surprises and moves them, but here in North Carolina, for the first time in a long time I had to think very carefully about coming out because I feared for my safety.


National LGBTQ Task Force Action Fund Staff

It was at the airport when I realized how organizing in North Carolina would affect me differently than any other activism work I have done. But experiencing this law in similar ways as North Carolinians just increased my passion for the work I have been doing in the state. My experience is still nowhere near what the people of North Carolina are facing though because I have the option and privilege of leaving whereas residents do not. Not only do they not have a say over where they can use the bathroom and if they can be discriminated against, but they also have no say over the damage that the law is doing to the state of North Carolina.


Before I came to North Carolina and before I actually spoke to residents, I thought that all of the businesses and major corporations boycotting and pulling out of North Carolina was a great way to show the governor that people all across the U.S. don’t agree with HB2, and that the financial loss would push him to repeal the bill. What I found out when I got to North Carolina and started working and talking with folks at the Freedom Center for Social Justice was that the he governor doesn’t seem to care about how it’s really hurting North Carolina residents. North Carolinians don’t want businesses to go, they need them to stay and stand up for them instead of leaving. The small business owners are fearing having to close their doors because tourism has plummeted, conventions have canceled and they are not getting enough business to stay afloat. After seeing that and speaking to community members and people that own their own businesses, I see that we need to find a way to pull small businesses together and to work with and continue uplifting local grassroots organizations like the Freedom Center for Social Justice.


My time and work in North Carolina is surely not over, and I look forward to supporting efforts on the ground to secure full protections against discrimination for LGBTQ people.

by Camden Hargrove, Field Organizer, National LGBTQ Task Force Action Fund

North Carolina Baptist Support for LGBTQ Equality Spans Over Decades

May 6, 2016

2016-04-23 10.48.50The National LGBTQ Task Force has the honor of being caretakers of something truly remarkable: the Shower of Stoles Project, which is a gathering of over 1,200 stoles from LGBTQ clergy. The collection, now celebrating its 20th anniversary, has been seen by over a quarter million people across the country, bearing witness to the lives and stories of hundreds of LGBTQ faith leaders. We take great pride in our role as curator, and are humbled by the stories represented in these liturgical pieces.

Most of the stoles are from, or in honor of, individuals who have left ministry or been disciplined because of their sexual orientation or gender identity. But also among the collection are what we call solidarity stoles – stoles donated as a tangible sign of support for the full inclusion of LGBTQ people into the life and leadership of the Church. These solidarity stoles have come from seminaries, colleges and welcoming congregations.

As of today, on our website at, we list over 5,000 mostly Christian congregations across the country that welcome and affirm LGBTQ folks. Getting to this point has been the result of decades of work by countless advocates across so many faith traditions. But even today in 2016, becoming a welcoming congregation can be a courageous and risky thing to do. These faith settings can, depending on their denomination, face repercussions ranging from censure to being banished from their denomination altogether.2016-04-24 12.03.55
Recently, I joined a number of my Task Force colleagues in North Carolina working with people of faith across the state in efforts to repeal HB2, a virulent law that targets transgender people but also discriminates against the entire LGBTQ community as well restricts the rights of other marginalized people.

In the course of my work in North Carolina, I visited a remarkable congregation, Pullen Memorial Baptist Church in Raleigh, a welcoming congregation that had donated a solidarity stole back in 2003.

Their journey as a welcoming congregation began in 1992, when two members – a gay couple – voiced their desire to get married. Performing same-sex weddings, or “Holy Unions,” was rare at that time, and only performed in the most progressive of congregations. Pullen was part of the Southern Baptist Convention, a denomination vehement in its opposition to LGBTQ inclusion.

By supporting this couple, Pullen was entering dangerous waters. But despite the threat of serious ramifications, Pullen courageously proclaimed their unqualified support for gay and lesbian people—and since for bisexual, transgender and queer people as well.

For that act of courage, they paid dearly. Like so many of the pastors represented in the Shower of Stoles Project, they were kicked out of their denomination.

Despite that retaliation, the members of Pullen have stayed steadfast and faithful in their support. They have remained a safe refuge for LGBTQ people seeking a spiritual home free from judgment and condemnation. They were early members of the Association of Welcoming and Affirming Baptists.

Their justice work has extended far beyond LGBTQ issues. They have been a strong partner in the Moral Monday movement in North Carolina, a profoundly inspiring, inclusive and intersection coming-together of advocates working on a host of social justice issues, from voting rights to advocating for a living wage to working to repeal HB2.

My visit allowed me to bring their solidarity stole, donated all those years ago, back home for a visit. It was so moving to see their pastor, Reverend Nancy Petty, wear it during Sunday morning’s worship.

SOSP Meme - Pullen MemorialAs a gay preacher’s kid who has been so hurt by the Church, I find a bit of healing and reason for hope when I experience acts of courage like Pullen’s. I see hope for a church where all are truly welcomed and affirmed. I see hope for a world in which a young LGBTQ kid never has to end their life because they fear that God or their family doesn’t love them. And I hope for a world in which politicians and those in power do not enact laws that harm the most vulnerable among us.

May it be so.

For more information on the Shower of Stoles Project, and to bring a portion of the collection to your community of faith, please visit

by David Lohman,  Faith Work Manager,  National LGBTQ Task Force

The Fight to Repeal NC HB2: Turning Lemons into Lemonade

May 4, 2016

Like many people, I have been obsessed with Beyoncé’s visual album Lemonade since it premiered on HBO. As a Black woman, it was beautiful to be surrounded by so many images, ideas, lyrics, and sounds that resonated with my experiences in Black families. As a Southern activist, lemonade has now taken a completely different meaning for me.

lemonade album cover

The day Beyoncé’s album premiered, I was training people of faith on how to utilize the power of their own stories to make change. The last few weeks I’ve been working to organize and mobilize clergy and people of faith in North Carolina to stand up against discrimination enshrined into law by HB2. I’ve heard the righteous anger about HB2 from people in Charlotte, Durham, and Raleigh at faith events. They, like many others, are insulted that the North Carolina legislature and Governor would, using the transgender community as a scapegoat, pass a law that repealed discrimination and worker wage protections while gutting the ability for workers to defend themselves against employment discrimination in state courts.

As I watched Beyoncé in her video take her bat and smash the city of New Orleans while singing the words, “Hold up, they don’t love you like I love you…what a wicked way to treat the girl that loves you,” I thought of the Southerners who continue to live in places that actively seek to deny us our humanity and dignity. I thought of the protests that have followed my brothers and sisters being slain openly in the streets by the state with no justice. I thought of the blood shed by my ancestors who built this country through slave labor. I thought about my immigrant friends and their families, whose labor has been used almost for free. I thought about how all our families have struggled for a taste of freedom, freedom that people like Donald Trump and Ted Cruz wish to deny them.

Many of us have had moments where we wished we could take out our anger on a system that works against victims of state violence anti-trans violence, on streets that divide the haves from the have-nots, and on restrooms, access to which has been denied to many trans people. As much as the South has hurt us, we love the South; and because of that love, we stay in the South.

For me, hearing the lyrics “When you hurt me, you hurt yourself,” from the song “Don’t Hurt Yourself” evoked the reality that, when a community of people are marginalized and oppressed, society as a whole fails. Listening to Beyoncé, I found my mind spinning at how all of our lives are connected, and that in trying to separate our lives from theirs, conservative politicians are losing out on God’s most precious gift: the diversity of creation. In signing HB2 into law, Governor McCrory not only hurt the communities targeted by the law, but so many others. In just one month since the bill became law, the state has lost hundreds of millions of dollars, thousands of jobs, and according to the polls, everyone in North Carolina will soon be putting their middle fingers up and telling their governor “Boy, Bye.”

For me, the chapter headings in the Lemonade video, which detail the eleven stages of grief—intuition, denial, anger, apathy, emptiness, accountability, reformation, forgiveness, resurrection, hope and redemption— resonated with the fight for justice in the South, specifically that around HB2. In North Carolina, even as the special legislative session was called for the purpose of passing HB2, many in our community were in denial that it would actually become law. Once it did, there wasn’t much time for apathy and emptiness. Our side was marshaled for a long march toward accountability for politicians. Our actions on Monday, April 25—which began with a press conference delivering nearly 200,000 petition signatures to repeal HB2, also included two rallies, a speak out, and ended with a symbolic sit-in at the state General Assembly. The actions on April 25 were just the beginning of a series of actions organized to push for the repeal of what has now become known as “Hate Bill 2.” Recently, the Governor of Georgia made a different decision than Governor McCrory by not signing a bill similar to HB2—a decision that allowed for there to be reformation, forgiveness (to some extent), resurrection, hope, and redemption. He followed the rules of his faith and made a determination that those rules did not include discrimination against any group of people. In this decision, Georgia began to turn away from its dark past.

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front row: National LGBTQ Task Force staff Bri Sanders, Victoria Kirby York and David Lohman

In North Carolina, the path to redemption for the leaders who voted for and signed this bill into law is narrow, and ends in two months at the close of the short session. Advocates across our movement, fighting for justice for all, are getting in “Formation” to repeal HB2 and to replace it with strong non-discrimination protections that are inclusive of LGBTQ people. If that is not turning lemons into lemonade, I don’t know what else is. If forgiveness and redemption are truly possible, they will be from the heart of Joseph espoused in Genesis 50:20, “as for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today.” The lemonade that we are making in North Carolina will hopefully not only finally bring LGBTQ inclusive non-discrimination protections, but also increase public education, support, affirmation, and awareness regarding the transgender community.

Whether repeal of HB2 happens in the short session or as a result of Election Day in November, freedom from HB2, like in Beyoncé’s song “Freedom,” is coming because we know that our community is resilient and that our Creator intended for all of her children to be free to be who she created us to be. King Bey agrees. She has recently come out in opposition to HB2. So has the federal government. Yesterday, the US Department of Justice gave North Carolina until Monday to stop implementing or complying with significant aspects of HB2 or else nearly a billion dollars’ worth of federal funding would be at stake. While we hope those significant aspects of HB2 are voided, we know the rest of the law is just as bad for other marginalized and oppressed communities. We will keep on fighting for full repeal of the law because as Beyoncé says “I’ma keep running cause a winner don’t quit on themselves.”

by Victoria Kirby York, National Campaigns Director, National LGBTQ Task Force

New online guide aims to end LGBTQ youth homelessness

April 26, 2016

The National LGBTQ Task Force, in collaboration with the True Colors Fund, has launched a new resource for advocates working to support LGBTQ youth experiencing homelessness. The online resource “At the Intersections: A Collaborative Guide on LGBTQ Youth Homelessness,” written by 47 contributors, is a comprehensive guide for advocates, policy makers, service providers, and funders working to end homelessness among LGBTQ youth. The first-of-its-kind online publication highlights innovative approaches to supporting youth experiencing homelessness, provides case studies of replicable and successful models, as well as concrete solutions to ending LGBTQ youth homelessness.

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According to the William Institute, up to 40 percent of young people experiencing homelessness identify as LGBTQ, although they represent less than 10 percent of the general youth population. There are many factors that contribute to LGBTQ youth homelessness, including family rejection, abuse, aging out of foster care, economic hardship, bullying and school harassment. LGBTQ youth also suffer higher rates of physical and sexual assault than heterosexual youth experiencing homelessness. Also, in order to survive, 28% of homeless LGBTQ youth report trading sex for basic needs such as food, clothing, and shelter. Additionally, LGBTQ youth are twice as likely as non-LGBTQ youth to attempt suicide.

The new online resource also examines the relationship between racism and LGBTQ youth homelessness, the impact of immigration on LGBTQ young people, and the systemic barriers faced by transgender and gender non-conforming youth experiencing homelessness.

We encourage any organization that wants to take part assisting with this important cause to read and follow the advice in “At the Intersection” online guide. To learn more about the guide, and to read online, please visit:

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by Daniel Chevez, National LGBTQ Task Force Media Relations Fellow

Report reveals how the criminal justice system fails LGBTQ people

April 20, 2016

A new report on how lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBTQ) people interact with the criminal legal system, Unjust: How the Broken Criminal Justice System Fails LGBT People, by the Movement Advancement Project and the Center for American Progress, reveals the reality of the broken criminal justice system in the United States. The report shows how pervasive stigma and discrimination, discriminatory policing strategies, and discriminatory laws can target LGBTQ people, especially LGBTQ people of color and LGBTQ people of low-income.
thumbnail_Figure 32 High Rates of Incarceration Among Transgender AdultsAccording to the report, discrimination and stigma is one of the main reasons why LGBTQ people of color and low-income might have a higher risk of ending up incarcerated. Discrimination and stigma in housing and employment may force many LGBTQ people into untenable situations. When people are pushed out of their homes because of their sexual orientation or fired unfairly because of who they are, they are at a higher risk at becoming homeless. Homelessness may leave many LGBTQ people vulnerable to encounters with law enforcement and ultimately, criminalization. For example, one in five (20%) transgender people in men’s prisons in California had been homeless just prior to their incarceration.

LGBT People Face High Rates of Housing Discrimination

LGBT People Face High Rates of Housing Discrimination

Also, discrimination and stigma towards people living with HIV is another way the criminal justice system targets the LGBTQ community. Nearly 2/3 of states maintain outdated HIV criminalization laws that criminalize the lives of people living with HIV. These laws punish the behaviors of people living with HIV, even if those behaviors carry no risk of transmission.

Robert Suttle from Louisiana saw his life destroyed after he was forced to accept a plea bargain and served six months of prison rather than risk 10-year prison sentenced for not disclosing his HIV-positive status to his boyfriend when they met. He also was forced to register as a sex-offender through 2024, and the words “sex offender” are printed in red capital letters underneath his picture on his driver’s license. Data from the William Institute found that individuals charged with HIV-related cases were convicted in 99% of the cases, and 91% of those convicted were sentenced to jail time in prisons. In some states, individuals convicted under these laws are forced to register as sex offenders. Just like Robert, there are many people in the LGBTQ community who are being targeted by these outdated criminalization laws that further limit employment and housing options, among other far-reaching ramifications.
Figure 21 HIV Criminalization
Life after conviction can make it more difficult for LGBTQ people to re-enter society. The report exposes two primary challenges LGBTQ people face after conviction. There is a lack of support for LGBTQ people in probation parole and re-entry programs. When LGBTQ people need support finding housing or employment, they experience discrimination at a higher rate. Rarely do parole, probation, and re-entry programs take into consideration the discrimination LGBTQ people face in housing, employment, and many other areas of life. Also, having a criminal record can harm LGBTQ people‘s ability to support themselves and to be a part of their families and communities. In many ways, LGBTQ people continue to be punished after they have completed their sentence. Furthermore, because LGBTQ people already struggle with discrimination and stigma, a criminal record can create additional barriers for former inmates trying to rebuild their lives. For LGBTQ immigrants, regardless of immigration status, having a criminal record can easily lead to deportation.

SECTION 3 GRAPHIC LGBT People Face Challenges Rebuilding Lives

The report provides high-level recommendations focused on reducing the number of people, particularly the number of LGBTQ people of color and low-income LGBTQ people, who come in contact with law enforcement. Some of the recommendations made include reducing abusive and excessive force by police; repealing, replacing and modernizing HIV criminalization laws; and creating a fair chance for people returning to their communities after incarceration. Because of the broken criminal justice system in the U.S., it is clear we still need to make sure judges, court staff, attorneys, and juries don’t discriminate LGBTQ people. Click here to read full report.

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by Daniel Chevez, National LGBTQ Task Force Media Relations Fellow

Supreme Court Rally in Support of Undocumented LGBTQ Immigrants

April 15, 2016

On Monday April 18, the U.S. Supreme Court will hear oral arguments in the case of United States v. Texas, a lawsuit that has placed of President Obama’s November executive actions on hold. This case has frozen the implementation of Deferred Action for Parents of Americans and Lawful Permanent Residents (DAPA) and expanded Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA).

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Task Force Fellows in front of Supreme Court

In 2012, Obama provided immigration relief to undocumented students through DACA. The program has been in place for four years and has provided work authorization and protection against deportation to roughly 665,000 people. Last November, the president attempted to provide temporary work permits and deferred deportation to approximately 3.7 million undocumented immigrants through DAPA. Unfortunately, Texas and 25 other states filled a lawsuit claiming that expanded DACA and DAPA violates federal laws and the Constitution. Due to this lawsuit, the implementation of DAPA has been blocked and millions of DAPA-eligible immigrants are not able to work legally and live without the fear of deportation.

Freezing DAPA also affects LGBTQ immigrants who may qualify for the program. Currently, there are at least 267,000 lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender LGBTQ adult undocumented immigrants living in the United States. For many people, DAPA would mean more job security, greater access to social services, high wages, and bringing family separations to an end.

Immigrant rights are LGBTQ rights. That is why the National LGBTQ Task Force is joining immigrant advocates in calling on the Supreme Court to unfreeze DAPA. Please join us for a National Day of Action, Monday, April 18th, at 8:00 a.m. at the Supreme Court, 1 First Street NE, Washington, D.C. If you are unable to attend, please join local events or show your support online by changing your social media profile to include the solidarity ribbon available here:
To learn more about the case or coalition please visit:

by Daniel Chevez, National LGBTQ Task Force Media Relations Fellow

Three Reasons I Volunteer for Winter Party Festival

April 1, 2016

Imagine standing in the sun with a view of the ocean in Miami Beach, surrounded by friendly people from all over the world and close friends from all walks of life, and dancing to a song about deflecting all the criticism and cruel words that we face daily. For a moment, invincibility seems possible and love seems endless. Every year thousands experience Winter Party Festival, a week-long celebration in Miami Beach that raises funds for South Florida LGBTQ organizations as well as the National LGBTQ Task Force. The festival programming includes night events, an art show, a VIP cocktail reception, movie screenings, and one infamous beach party located on the sands of South Beach.

Winter Party Festival 2016

The 2017 festival will mark my fourth as a volunteer for Winter Party. My motivations have evolved over that time, so finding just one reason for volunteering or even attending was difficult. As I started thinking about this post, I came across three themes for, “Why Winter Party?”

The Experience
In Rea Carey’s speech during the National LGBTQ Task Force Gala – Miami (formerly the Miami Recognition Dinner) she said, “To be fully and freely you. Can you imagine what that’d look like?” Winter Party is that space for many, where attendees, volunteers, committee members, and everyone involved are free to be themselves without judgment. From Task Force staff walking around the Beach Party wearing bonnets to our allies greeted with hugs and smiles, Winter Party is the place to “be you.”

The stories attendees tell about their Winter Party experiences make the year of long volunteer hours and hard work all worth it. Throwback Thursday posts on Instagram captioned with, “Take me back,” paragraph-long Facebook posts about friends creating life-long memories, and personalized thank yous from attendees are indicative of the passion and love for Winter Party and the Task Force. I leave Winter Party every year with a smile and a feeling that we changed the world, or maybe just Miami Beach, even if only for a week.

Giving attendees a space to express themselves also means creating opportunities for friends to reunite and forge lifelong relationships; I can attest to that Winter Party promise, as it’s something I personally experience. I attended my first Winter Party in 2011 and there created deep, lasting friendships and bonded over the incredible experiences on and off the dance floor with some of my favorite people.

The Cause
With over $2.1 million raised for South Florida LGBTQ organizations, Winter Party Festival is not just a party and series of social events. Funds raised benefit organizations that support homeless LGBTQ youth, LGBTQ counseling, and many important causes to our community.

Winter Party is also more than a fundraiser; it is an opportunity for education and advocacy. In 2016, organizations like Impulse – South Florida, AIDS United, and The Miami Collaborative MSM Workgroup created unique activities during the festival to deliver important messages to attendees and advocate for their causes. Impulse – South Florida set up HIV testing in one our VIP cabanas at the sold-out pool party, giving them access to educate and test thousands of guests.

The People
The Task Force has created and maintained a special culture for the hundreds of people working on Winter Party unlike any organization I’ve been a part of. The passion for building the week-long celebration is contagious, and the support and care for the volunteers and employees is endless.

Perhaps it’s a cliché, but the work I do for Winter Party never feels like work. And what’s even better is that great people, who I’m proud to call friends, are part of this journey each year. Members of the marketing committee, unlike any other Winter Party committee, are located all over the U.S. in New York, North Carolina, Miami, San Francisco, Washington D.C., San Diego, and Los Angeles. Though not able to meet physically, they demonstrate their commitment to the organization through long hours, numerous meetings, and strategic thinking, leveraging their expertise to help elevate Winter Party year after year.


Winter Party Festival 2016

As Vice-Chair for the 2017 Winter Party Festival, I’m more excited than ever for the road ahead. Winter Party, like any entity, is ever evolving. Each and every volunteer will play a part in forming the next iteration and the one after. After a preview of the team for 2017, I feel confident in saying that it will be the best Winter Party year yet.

by Stephen Seo

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